I love that you realize that being lazy is a mistaken belief of yours. What a load off your shoulders it must be!
Can you think of other things you can do to be in control when someone tells you to do something you don’t want to do?
Wow, your method of gaining courage by not thinking about it is something I naturally do, but without realizing it. I think I will put that in the course. THANKS! A real key to what you said above is knowing when something is done for the day so you CAN put it away until the next.
And to expand on your role as SME, are there other situations where you might be afraid, but you can act (at least internally) as a teacher?
…embrace the situation I am in and move forward. This is a major key to happiness. I hope the funeral is a good experience for you.